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Thursday, July 19, 2012

Masei: Living Donation of Organs and Ir Miklat

(With some changes, this is a re-post of last year's post on this subject.  I also incorporated the comments that came in last time.)


What is the extent of the moral and halachic obligation to save another's life?  The question is far too broad and nuanced to even discuss in this forum.  I only want to point out a not well known paragraph from Reb Meir Simcha in his Ohr Samei'ach on this topic.  Every word in Reb Meir Simcha is a gem, and this one is particularly interesting and deserves wider dissemination.


The issue at hand is whether one is allowed to endanger his life to save someone else.  Assuming he is allowed to do so, is he obligated to do so?  Does the relative degree of danger to himself and the other person matter?  There has to be some leeway here; an absolute prohibition would mean there were no soldiers, no policemen,  no doctors in infectious disease clinics, and no firefighters.  As you can see, the numerous permutations require careful attention.   One current question is whether a person may donate a kidney or part of a liver to someone who would otherwise die.  There is definitely a danger involved in living donation.  It is allowed?  Is it justified?  Is it a mitzvah?  Is it an obligation?  For helpful overviews and a survey of the various opinions, both modern and ancient, see here and here.  There is a wonderful group, called HODS- the Halachic Organ Donor Society- that has a very interesting and informative web site dedicated to this and many other issues.  I should really have linked to HODS' home page, but the video on the home page is so hard to watch, and so beautiful and poignant at the same time, that I wanted to warn you before linking to it.

As always, halachic questions of this nature should be directed to an Orthodox Rabbi of stature.  Basic rabbinic training certainly does not guarantee the expertise to deal with such questions.


Back to Reb Meir Simcha.  The Gemara says that a person who must run to the Ir Miklat, that is, a person who had killed someone inadvertently, may never leave until the Kohen Gadol dies.  There is absolutely no circumstance that would allow him to leave.  As the Mishna in Makkos 11b says, 
אינו יוצא לא לעדות מצוה ולא לעדות ממון ולא לעדות נפשות ואפי' ישראל צריכים לו ואפי' שר צבא ישראל כיואב בן צרויה אינו יוצא משם לעולם

He does not leave to testify about the new Moon, and not for civil testimony, and not to testify in capital cases, and even if the Jewish People need him, even if he is a General like Yoav ben Tzruyah, he never leaves.


Reb Meir Simcha addresses the question, how can it be that Pikuach Nefesh wouldn't allow temporary abatement of the punishment of Galus?  If he is needed to lead the army in war, if he is needed to testify in a capital case, if he is a doctor, nothing at all allows him out, despite the deaths that will likely result from this refusal.  What happened to the primacy of human life?  In fact, I would say that the best possible thing for this man to do that would rectify his negligent taking of a life is to go and save lives!  Why doesn't the Torah allow this?  


Reb Meir Simcha (in 7 Rotzei'ach 8) answers that all these reasons would not affect the vengeful relative's right to kill him.  The Goel Hadam will still have the right to kill this man as soon as he walks out of the Ir Miklat.  Since leaving endangers him, he is not allowed to leave his safe refuge; A man may not endanger his life in order to save others.  (I would not be too quick to assume that this is based on Reb Akiva in Bava Metzia 62a, חייך קודמין, because Reb Meir Simcha makes no reference to that Gemara at all.)  This is particularly interesting in light of the fact that the ability and the motivation of the Goel Hadam to do what he is allowed to do will vary with the time and place and circumstances.  But Reb Meir Simcha says that the mere fact that the Goel Hadam has the right to kill this man with impunity prohibits this man from leaving the Ir Miklat, even if leaving would enable him to save another man's life.


Without in any way deprecating Reb Meirs Simcha's teretz, the fact remains that, as he himself cites extensively, many poskim say that one may, perhaps even must, endanger himself to save another's life, and his teretz is of no use in explaining how the others would learn the Mishna in Makkos.  (Rav Shternbuch, in Taam VaDaas, argues that the whole concept of war means that you endanger yourself for the benefit of the people, and it doesn't make any sense to say that it is the danger of the Goel HaDam that precludes a general from leaving the Ir Miklat in order to lead his army in war.  I'm not impressed with his raya, but there it is.)  A certain Isha Chashuva immediately answered that the experience of Galus has to be a simulacrum of death, of leaving everything behind and not being able to return.  If the person can come back for any reason at all, then it's not at all like being dead.   (I once said that the reason women tend to get headaches is because vestigial organs are more prone to derangement.  While I still think this is true, my rebbitzen has made it clear that it does not apply to her.)

Here is our teretz.


Galus is a form of chiyuv missah.  Chiyuv missah obviously trumps V'chai bahem.  Proof- first of all, the fact that you kill the guy is proof enough.  More- pikuach nefesh is docheh shabbos, but a mechallel Shabbos is chayav missah.  One might say that this is because Rachmana afkerei l'damei.  Or one might say that the chiyuv missa is doche pikuach nefesh.  If you say the latter, then you have a pshat in the Mishna in Makkos.  In any case, one thing is certain: you don't say אז מען דארף דעם גנב - נעמט מען אים פון די תליה אראפ

Comments:

Efrayim said...


Your answer is creative, but some might find it hard to believe that one person's chiyuv misah can set aside another person's pikuach nefesh. Is someone who is chayav misah now exempt from saving othes' lives? Perhaps the explanation is that since there is a real chiyuv misah - if he leaves intentionallly, anyone is permitted to kill him - leaving is not viewed as doubtful misah, but as actual misah. This is comparable to the principle of "kim leih b'd'rabbah mineih" where there is theoretical chiyuv missah even when there is no chiyuv missah applied.

b said...

I didn't say that a chayav missa is not obligated in pikuach nefesh. I said that when the chiyuv missa is at odds with the pikuach nefesh, chiyuv missa is stonger. Here, galus in the Ir Miklat is the equivalent of Missa, leaving is like avoiding a chiyuv missa, and pikuach nefesh is not docheh chiyuv missa. 

I hear how you are using Reish Lakish from Ksuvos 34b. Very nice. Creative- and ironic, too. It's diametrically opposed to my teretz. I am saying that galus is missa, and missa is docheh pikuach nefesh. You are saying that galus is galus, and leaving galus is the din of missa, and the mitzva of pikuach nefesh cannot possibly generate a din missa on someone.
Daniel said...

I'm asking because I don't know. Is there in fact a chiyuv on the rotzeach to go to an ir miklat? or just an option? what would be the chiyuv? ושמרתם לנפשותיכם or ונס אל אחת הערכים האל וחי? what if he genuinely feels that he wants pure justice of death by go'el hadam?

2- Doesn't ואם אין מחני נא מספרך and אשר הערה למות נפשו (ישעיה נג show that you can give up your life for someone else? ואת"ל Moshe saving the entire nation is different, what about avraham going to save Lot. Or the din of קנאים פוגעים בו? it seems to me, where the danger is a function of the person's expressing that which is proper is in his eyes it's always permissibale to give your life for that which you feel is Truth. Even in instances of certain death, let alone only risk.
b said...

He is required to go to the Ir Miklat, he doesn't have the option of staying home and taking the risk. First Rambam in 5 Rotzei'ach- כל ההורג בשגגה גולה ממדינה שהרג בה לערי מקלט ומצות עשה להגלותו שנאמר וישב בה עד מות הכהן הגדול. והוזהרו בית דין שלא יקחו כופר מן הרוצח בשגגה כדי לישב בעירו שנאמר ולא תקחו כופר לנוס אל עיר מקלטו

I don't know how to explain your examples. But here's what I'm thinking:

Perhaps self endangerment is a form of charity, of giving away what is yours on behalf of another, and there are limits to tzedaka. There's a rule of chomesh, that you only give up to 20% of your money to tzedaka. If so, as soon as we remove the parties from a tzedaka relationship, all these discussions will not apply. Perhaps certain relationships create responsibility, and when you are responsible for someone, you are allowed and maybe obligated to take a risk on his behalf.
Daniel said...

The Rambam only shows that beis din is obligated להגלותו, not that he has a chiyuv to be גולה.

I'm a little puzzled how כופר לנוס אל עיר מקלטו means "to allow him to stay home" but regardless, again my point the same, the issur is on beis din, not the rotzeach.
Efrayim said...

Re your 1027 response - I agree with you that you must say that a chiyuv missah is stronger than the mitzvah of v'chai bahem of the person who chayav misah; if I recall correctly there is a story of a person who actually carried out the 4 types of misas beis din on himself. The nafkah minah would be that one who is chayav misah and has the opportunity to escape is not required to, and perhaps is not even allowed to (assuming he knows he is guilty). However, a strong, perhaps compelling case can be made that even if you are correct in your assertion that golus is a form of chiyuv misa, that does not now exempt the rotzeiach b'shogeg from the obligations he has because he is physically alive. Why is he less subject to the mitzvah of v'chai bahem as applied to others than he is in the mitzvos of wearing tefillin, learning Torah, et al.? Is someone who is on his way to being executed now patur from saving others' lives (assuming he can escape beis din's hands long enough to do so)?

Re Daniel's point - if anything the chomesh halachah is a question on this whole discussion You are not allowed to give up more than 20%/25% of your assets to perform a one-time mitzvas aseh. Acharonim understand that as also applying to your emotional strength - e.g., you are not required to push yourself to your breaking point in order to fulfill the chiyuv achilas matzah. (Obviously this is a principle which requires in-depth elaboration.) How then can you be allowed to risk your life? I don't believe the answer can be as broad as the one Daniel suggests since the meforshim give all sorts of technical parameters under which the rule of "kanaim pogim bo" can apply. It's not carte blanche for risking your life for whatever you consider worthwhile.
b said...

OK, Efrayim, I agree that my teretz is far from impregnable. But I thought that it was, as you said, creative enough to count as a nice lomdus. I'm not arguing, but I do want to emphasize that I anticipated the problem when I said that if his chiyuv missa is רחמנא אפקריה לדמיה, the teretz doesn't begin.

As for your kashe on chomesh- please note that I was making the tzutshtell to chomesh in Reb Meir Simcha, who holds that it is assur to endanger yourself, which would comport with the idea of Chomesh and Tzedaka.
great unknown said...

Daniel at 3:30
la'nus is not a verb but a noun: the one required to escape.
Daniel said...
TGU- saw the rashi now. thank you very much.
b said...

By the way, Chomesh is a takana derabanan, and there are many exceptions to its application. Still, the concept, the idea that underlies the Chachamim in Usha, may apply.
great unknown said...

How can you say that chomesh is a takana d'rabanan? Everyone knows that it is a halacha l'Moshe miSinai. Not to drag this out too far, see the Shnos Eliyahu on the first mishna in Peah, d"h gemilus chassadim, in the Pirush Ha'Aruch.
Intriguingly, the Pirush Ha'Kotzor says the opposite.
Daniel said...

Re Efraim: the maamar chazal of אל יבזבז יותר מחומש , regardless of it's source, is not a strict ISSUR in the way you (or yes, probably 99% of the world) are thinking but rather a general guidleine for going through life and mode of conduct (as the original meaning of הלכה/הליכה means).

How can it be "ASSUR" to give more than a chomesh when i have the right to be מפקיר כל נכסיי if I want and live a life of an עני?...

Anonymous said...

. אגרות משה, יו"ד, א סימן קמג 

ובדבר אם תקנת אושא שאל יבזבז יותר מחומש הוא איסור או רק עצה טובה... והנה לא כתב הרמב"ם הדין דאל יבזבז יותר מחומש אלא בסוף הלכות ערכין ולא בצדקה בהלכות מתנות עניים ובש"ע מפורש שהמחבר סובר דבידו משגת מחוייב ליתן כפי צורך העניים אף שהוא יותר מחומש משמע שסובר בדעת הרמב"ם שכיון שדין התורה הוא שיתן כפי צורך העניים לא תקנו רבנן לאסור וגם לא לעצה טובה בצדקה רק להקדיש אסרו... עכ"פ הרמ"א שכתב ואל יבזבז יותר מחומש בצדקה פליג וסובר שאסור וכדמוכח מהא דמר עוקבא ודעת הרמב"ם והמחבר צ"ע. עכ"פ למעשה אין לבזבז יותר מחומש אם לא לחשש פקוח נפש. 

.מנחת יצחק, ה סימן לד 

והנה בתשובת אגרות משה שם, בנה יסודו על דברי הרמ"א שם (יו"ד סי' רמ"ט סעי' א'), שכתב ואל יבזבז יותר מחומש עיי"ש. ולענ"ד אין ראיה דבא לחלוק על המחבר, דאם רצונו לחלוק, היה כותב, וי"א, כנודע דרכו, וביותר ממה שמצוין שם המקור, (ב"י בשם הגמ' פרק נערה שנתפתתה), ואף שאין הציון מהרמ"א עצמו, אבל כן ראיתי בדרכי משה השלם, שעל דברי המחבר בש"ע, עד חומש מצוה מן המובחר כו', כתב למקור הדברים, בפ' נערה שנתפתתה א"ר אילעי באושא התקינו המבזבז אל יבזבז יותר מחומש, שמא יצטרך לבריות עיין שם, ש"מ דלא בא לחלוק על דברי המחבר, אלא למלאות דבריו, דבאין ידו משגת אסור לבזבז, אבל בידו משגת, י"ל דמודה לדברי המחבר. 
וא"כ להלכה למעשה, כמו בזמן הזה, שבכל עת יש עניים נצרכים לפנינו, וביותר עניי א"י, שפיר יכול מי שידו משגת לבזבז יותר מחומש, ומצוה קעביד

b said...

I saw the שנות אליהו and the פירוש הארוך, and I see that the former implies derabanan, while the latter says clearly, based on a Yerushalmi, that what we call תקנת אושא is really a Halacha L'Moshe Mi'Sinai that Chazal publicized at Usha.

Are you sure the שנות אליהו and the פירוש הארוך are both from the Gaon?

Efrayim said...
This has nothing to do with the discussion here, but the Mishnah Brurah brings this down in the sugya of chomesh, and it's inyanah d'yoma, so maybe the distinguished blog editor or someone else can answer this question. Based on the story of Bar Kamtza the Magen Avraham suggests that when there is "eimas hamalchus" one is permitted to violate even a lo saseh (i.e., offering a korban with a mum). The Mishnah Brurah says that other acharonim question this ruling since the rabanan's concern was actually about pikuach nefesh, which is certainly docheh any ordinary lo saseh. However, if you look at the Maharatz Chiyus on Gittin where the story of Bar Kamtzah is, he not only approvingly cites this Magen Avraham, but says that the reason the rabanan suggested Bar Kamtzah be killed was because he was a rodef! If he was a rodef, how can we infer anything to a case of ordinary "eimas hamalchus"?

great unknown said...

I was just thinking about a similar issue this morning: in America, so far, we don't have a clue as to what aimas malchus is, other than from history. Unless you live in Chicago, where the police routinely beat up and torture people; murders have yet to be revealed.

The din of rodef is defense against personal [or communal] sakanas nefashos; so is aimas malchus.

re: the Shnos Eliyahu
Other than the pirushim on kabbalah and trigonometry, we have very little actually written by the GR"A; most of it was transcribed by his talmidim [rather chasuv in their own right], but some was actually reviewed by the GR"A. See the haskama of R' Chaim Volozhiner to the Shnos Eliyahu.

As to the stira in the two versions, we find the same in the gemora by amora'im who just came out of shiur.

l'Inyanainu, see also the Gevuros Ari on Ta'anis 24a. However, see the Ahavas Chesed, 19:4 and the footnote there. Also, perek 20. Note that the Chofetz Chayim is not misyaches at all to the GR"A in the pirush ha'aruch.

A very relevant issue concerns how much of support for descendants who are learning can be counted against ma'aser and chomesh. I seem to recall from the Chasam Sofer that for a time period originally contracted at the time of the chasuna, none of it counts; after that, fifty percent.

I suspect the age of the child counts also; the minhag seems to be not to follow the strict d'Oraysa or even the more generous takanas Usha on that. However, I suspect that it would be very good from a chinuch standpoint to kick out sons as soon as they become bar mitzvah.
From a certain perspective, that is done by many in Eretz Yisroel, where they are shipped out the yeshiva dorms at the earliest possible moment.

b said...

Efrayim:

Have you ever wondered about policy in Halacha? For example: Rahm Emanuel is associated with an Orthodox synagogue. When the recession began, he asked his rabbi whether it was allowed to participate in a conference call on Rosh Hashanna to make decisions about what to do to prevent a depression. The Rabbi said that he may, because telephone usage is most likely derabanan, but more importantly, a depression would destabilize nations, bring hunger and famine, and result in many deaths and wars.

Certainly true. But one might argue that these results are not proximate, and halacha deals with direct, not gramma of gramma of gramma.

Or you could say that it is delusional to say there's a difference between pikuach nefesh of a choleh in front of you, or pikuach nefesh of cholim de'alma when you know for a fact that cholim will eventually appear.

You realize that this hetter would be a blanket hetter for kohanim to go to medical school, and chillul shabbos for medical students, and even working on shabbos when you're afraid that if you don't make a parnassa, you might get poor and not be able to afford medical help. And so on ad absurdum. So only Gedolim mamash can pasken on such questions.

In this case, Chazal are telling us that Eimas Malchus is Pikuach Nefesh. It may not look like it, it may not be immediate, but antagonizing the government is extremely dangerous, and so you are docheh shabbos as if it were pikuach nefesh mamosh, and if a guy is massering to the government, even on a matter that seems relatively minor, he is a rodef and chayav missah.

b said...

and Efrayim- I certainly don't need children and fools visiting this site. You are obviously neither. If you have any friends that you think might add something to our discussions, they would be welcome. I don't guarantee a gem every week, but occasionally something interesting does come up, either in the posts or in the comments.

Efrayim said...

Good, well-explained answer. Iy"h I'll come at least as long as I have bein hazmanim.

great unknown said...

There's a shu"t Chasam Sofer which deals with and thoroughly disposes of any possible heter for a Kohain to attend medical school based on future pikuach nefesh. Please enlighten me as to any gedolai poskim who do promulgate such a heter.

BTW, didn't Rahm's Rabbi also sign a letter in support of SSM? Obviously a godol with breite plaitzes.

great unknown said...

Which puts me in mind of,
Hog butcher for the world...
City of the breite plaitzes

b said...

I know the Chasam Sofer and of course Reb Moshe as well, that there's no chiyuv to learn medicine so that some day you will be able to save lives. By the way, the same thing would be mattir student autopsies, because only with that kind of hands on training will surgeons and physicians be able to save lives. We all know how that argument fared in Eretz Yisrael. 

The only posek I know that is mattir is the apocryphal posek at YU that so many MO doctors are someich on. Unbelievable what I've heard in the "name" of this alleged posek- wholesale chillul shabbos during rounds as a student and so forth.

But I still say that the concept of dichui on the basis of policy and planning is valid if applied by poskim of a certain stature. I realize that many of the reasons advanced for prohibiting chillul for getting a rebbe to daven or to get a kamei'a would apply here, too. That's a subject I'm working on, and will post on if I can find a parsha it's relevant to.

b said...

From a letter I received from Dr. Nachum J:

true , that is what rav moshe said
but he also told me, now that you will be a doctor , you HAVE to do that,
you don’t have the right to say that ” I’m better off in learning”
[ he also knew me well enough to know that I am NOT better off in learning]
so I work 30 hrs a week, that’s enough
a 60/40 split works fine for me

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Pinchas, Bamidbar 27:18. Proof of Character

Moshe Rabbeinu was concerned about the succession of leadership.  (Unfortunately, just as almost every royal succession in Tanach involved bloodshed, almost every yeshiva since Volozhin has suffered horrible succession battles.  Why don't the Roshei Yeshiva prevent this?  Either because the founders believe that Darwinian struggle is the best determinant, or because planning is futile since the one who was not favored will always ignore the testament of the founder, or for simple negligence to make prudent and effective plans..)  Who would lead Klal Yisrael as they enter Eretz Yisrael and conquer and divide and settle the land?  Moshe hoped and expected that his sons would succeed him, but Hashem told him that Yehoshua would be the next leader of Klal Yisrael.  (I, personally, wondered why Moshe asked that his own children succeed him.  He knew very well that the job was deadly, and that every step during the next fourteen years would be like a blindfolded walk through a minefield.  This question of perspective actually manifests itself in the machlokes Amora'im in Brachos 31b, regarding the interpretation of Channa's prayer that her son be "זרע אנשים".  In any case, Moshe Rabbeinu did want his sons to inherit his position of leadership.  Evidently, his greatest hope was that his children be leaders of Klal Yisrael despite his perfectly clear awareness of the concomitant extremity of danger and hardship.  It is reminiscent of the Akeida of Yitzchak.)  

The Yalkut Shimoni (27:776) says:
 (Mishlei 27:18) קח לך מה שבדוק לך את יהושע בן נון ועליו מפורש  נוצר תאנה יאכל פריה ושומר אדוניו יכובד

Take the one whom you have thoroughly examined, Yehoshua.  Regarding him it says (Mishlei 27:18) "He who safeguards the fig tree will eat its fruit and he who watches his master will be honored."  

.שהיה משה סבור שבניו יורשין מקומו ונוטלין שררותו התחיל מבקש מאת הקב"ה יפקוד ה', אמר לו הקב"ה משה לא כמו שאתה סבור אין בניך יורשין את מקומך אתה יודע שהרבה שרתך יהושע והרבה חלק לך כבוד והוא היה משכים ומעריב בבית הועד שלך לסדר הספסלין ופורס את המחצלאות הוא יטול שררות לקיים מה שנאמר נוצר תאנה יאכל פריה.

Moshe thought his sons should inherit his place and take his mantle of authority, so he began his supplication, saying "Hashem, appoint...." Hashem told him "Moshe, not as you think.  Your sons will not inherit your place.  You know that Yehoshua greatly served you and honored you.  He came early and stayed late at your study hall in order to arrange the benches and lay out the covers.  He will take your authority, as it says, He who safeguards the fig tree will eat its fruit and he who watches his master will be honored.

I'd like to note something Rav Dessler says, as brought in the Michtav Mei'Eliahu (Vol. VII p. 107):(as noted at the end of this post, it is really from the Alter from Kelm, where Rav Dessler was a talmid muvhak.)
The Gemara (AZ 18a) brings that Rav Chanina ben Tradion was wont to publicly gather numerous students to teach them Torah, at a time when doing so was a capital crime.  When caught and sentenced to be burned together with his Sefer Torah, he asked Rav Yossi ben Kisma, "Am I worthy to merit Olam Habba?"  Rav Yosi responded, "כלום מעשה בא לידך", have you ever done anything extraordinary?  Rav Chanina answered that one time he inadvertantly commingled his own money and money he was entrusted for the poor on Purim, and he gave all the money to the poor, afraid to calculate how much was his.  Rav Yosi said "אם כן מחלקך יהי חלקי ומגורלך יהי גורלי", if so, may I share your portion, may I share your lot.

Odd, that Rav Chanina's mesiras nefesh didn't rate as highly as his decision to avoid even a vanishingly small risk of taking a penny from the poor.  Why was Rav Yossi so impressed?  And consider that Rav Yossi ben Kisma, who was so amazed, is the one that said (Avos 6:9)
אמר רבי יוסי בן-קסמא: פעם אחת הייתי מהלך בדרך, ופנע בי אדם אחד, ונתן-לי שלום, והחזרתי לו שלום. אמר לי, רבי, מאיזה מקום אתה? אמר לו, מעיר גדולה של חכמים ושל-סופרים אני. אמר לי, רבי, רצונך שתדור עמנו במקומנו, ואני אתן לך אלף אלפים דינרי זהב ואבנים טובים ומרגליות? אמרתי לו, אם אתה נותן לי כל-כסף וזהב ואבנים טובים ומרגליות שבעולם, איני דר אלא במקום תורה. וכן כתוב בספר תהילים, על ידי-דוד מלך ישראל, "טוב לי תורת פיך מאלפי זהב וכסף". ולא עוד, שבשעת פטירתו של אדם, אין מלוין לו לאדם כסף ולא זהב ולא אבנים טובים ומרגליות, אלא תורה ומעשים טובים בלבד. שנאמר, "בהתהלכך תנחה אתך, בשכבך תשמור עליך, והקיצות היא תשיחך". בהתהלכך תנחה אתך - ביולם הזה. בשכבך תשמור עליך - בקבר. והקיצות היא תשיחך - לעולם הבה. ואומר "לי הכסף ולי הזהב נאום יי צבאות".

Rav Yossi knew how trivial money was in the spiritual realm and in the reality of existence.  What so impressed him about Rav Chanina's act?  Why did he think that taking on a monetary loss meant anything at all where there was some spiritual benefit to be gained?

The answer is that you cannot judge a man on the basis of the great and premeditated actions he takes.  His true internal character and strength of spirit can only be discerened from little things that a person does without thought.  The Medrash (Shemos 2:3) says 
דבר אחר וּמֹשֶׁה הָיָה רֹעֶה הדא הוא דכתיב (משלי ל ה) כל אמרת אלוה צרופה אין הקדוש ברוך הוא נותן גדולה לאדם עד שבודקהו בדבר קטן ואחר כך מעלהו לגדולה הרי לך שני גדולי עולם שבדקן הקדוש ברוך הוא בדבר קטן ונמצאו נאמנים והעלן לגדולה בדק לדוד בצאן ולא נהגם אלא במדבר להרחיקם מן הגזל שכן אליאב אומר לדוד (ש"א יז, כח) ועל מי נטשת מעט הצאן ההנה במדבר מלמד שהיה דוד מקיים המשנה (ב"ק עט:) אין מגדלים בהמה דקה בארץ ישראל אמר לו הקדוש ברוך הוא נמצא אתה נאמן בצאן בא ורעה צאני שנאמר (תהלים עח עא) מאחר עלות הביאו וכן במשה הוא אומר וינהג את הצאן אחר המדבר להוציאן מן הגזל ולקחו הקדוש ברוך הוא לרעות ישראל שנאמר (שם עז, כא) נחית כצאן עמך ביד משה ואהרן:
Hashem does not bestow a position of greatness on a man until He examines him in a "Davar Kattan," a small thing.

It was precisely because Rav Yossi knew how trivial money is that he discerned from Rav Chanina's act that it was done without any careful analysis, and thus it revealed what Rav Chanina truly was.  (This ends Rav Dessler's thoughts.)

I think this is the pshat in another Gemara (BM 24a), that says
מר זוטרא חסידא אגניב ליה כסא דכספא מאושפיזא חזיא לההוא בר בי רב דמשי ידיה ונגיב בגלימא דחבריה אמר היינו האי דלא איכפת ליה אממונא דחבריה כפתיה ואודי 
The pious Mar Zutra's silver cup was stolen at an inn.  He saw a young student dry his hands on someone else's garment that was hanging on a rack.  He said "This is the thief.  He is indifferent to other people's property."  They pressured him, and he admitted that he was the thief.

See also the Gemara (Chagiga 9b)
א"ל בר הי הי להלל מאי דכתיב (מלאכי ג) ושבתם וראיתם בין צדיק לרשע בין עובד אלקים לאשר לא עבדו היינו צדיק היינו עובד אלהים היינו רשע היינו אשר לא עבדו א"ל עבדו ולא עבדו תרוייהו צדיקי גמורי נינהו ואינו דומה שונה פרקו מאה פעמים לשונה פרקו מאה ואחד א"ל ומשום חד זימנא קרי ליה לא עבדו א"ל אין 
The Gemara says that the difference between "one who serves Hashem" and "one who does not serve Hashem" is that the latter reviews his studies one hundred and one times, while the first reviews one hundred times.  The Gemara says they are both Tzadikim Gemurim, but the one who learns one hundred and one times is incomparably greater than the one who only reviewed one hundred times.  Why is that one time so important?  Precisely because it is not important.  It is that one time that reveals the person to be an  עובד אלקים.

Here too.  Yehoshua showed his true colors not in the great things that he did.  His true personality was revealed in the "tell," the things that he did without thinking, the things that he did automatically.  As Arthur Conan Doyle once said (although any competent editor would have changed "infinitely" to "by far",) in The Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes- A Case of Identity "It was most suggestive," said Holmes. "It has long been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important.  

Without being over on Lo Sechaneim, let me say that someone else once put it very nicely, as follows:
“Faithfulness in great things is not uncommon; faithfulness in little things is rare but most indicative of character. Almost any husband would leap into the sea or rush into a burning building to rescue his perishing wife. But to anticipate the convenience or happiness of the wife in some small matter, the neglect of which would go unnoticed, is a more eloquent proof of tenderness.
“Our lives for the most part are made up of little things, and by these our character is to be tested. There are very few who have to take a prominent place in the great conflicts of our age; the vast majority must dwell in humbler scenes and be content to do a more humble work. The conflicts which we have to endure either against evil in our own soul or in the moral circle where our influence would seem to be trivial are in reality the struggle of the battle for life and decency; and true heroism is shown here as well as in those grander scales in which others win the leader’s fame or the martyr’s crown. Little duties carefully discharged; little temptations earnestly resisted with the strength which God supplies... these all together help to form that character which is to be described not as popular or glamorous, but as moral and noble.”

(N.B. 

I think it's important to note that to the extent that I understand Rav Dessler's interpretation of the story of Rav Yossi and Rav Chanina ben Dosa, I don't agree with his pshat.  The great men that I knew lived minutely and meticulously examined lives, and Rav Chanina's concern about the Purim money certainly would have merited careful thought and a conscious decision even if he personally thought money was dirt.  I remember hearing from Reb Moshe that he paskens hundreds of shailos a day on his own behavior.  The Medrash that he brings does support his idea, though, because it involves things that are truly insignificant- how you treat sheep.  In any case, it goes without saying that Rav Dessler's point is true and important in regard to our own life experience.)

Here is how the Yalkut Lekach Tov in Korach brings it down, pretty much verbatim from Kisvei HaSabba miKelm:

ערכם הגדול של מעשים קטנים
 ויחר למשה מאד לא חמור אחד מהם נשאתי ולא הרעותי ט"ז ט"ו
 תנו רבנן כשחלה רבי יוסי בן קיסמא הלך רבי חנינא בן תרדיון לבקרו אמר לו חנינא אחי (אחי) אי אתה יודע שאומה זו מן השמים המליכוה שהחריבה את ביתו ושרפה את היכלו והרגה את חסידיו ואבדה את טוביו ועדיין היא קיימת ואני שמעתי עליך שאתה יושב ועוסק בתורה [ומקהיל קהלות ברבים] וספר מונח לך בחיקך אמר לו מן השמים ירחמו אמר לו אני אומר לך דברים של טעם ואתה אומר לי מן השמים ירחמו תמה אני אם לא ישרפו אותך ואת ספר תורה באש אמר לו רבי מה אני לחיי העולם הבא אמר לו כלום מעשה בא לידך אמר לו מעות של פורים נתחלפו לי במעות של צדקה וחלקתים לעניים אמר לו אם כן מחלקך יהי חלקי ומגורלך יהי גורלי
 עבודה זרה יח 
מקשים העולם מדוע שאל ר' יוסי בן קסמא כלום מעשה בא לידך האם לא די 
במסירות נפש להרבצת תורה כדי לזכות לחיי העולם הבא? ויותר קשה להבין את תשובתו של ר' חנינא מעות של סעודת פורים וכו' וכי מעשה קטן זה שגם אדם פשוט היה עושה אותו גדול ממסירות נפש ללמד תורה ברבים מה ראה איפוא רבי יוסי בן קסמא להשיבו מחלקך יהיה חלקי מדוע התפעל כל כך ממעשה קטן זה?
 התמיהה תגדל עוד יותר כשנזכור דברים שאמר ר' יוסי בן קסמא עצמו במעשה המובא בפרק ששי דאבות אם אתה נותן לי כל כסף וזהב ואבנים טובות ומרגליות שבעולם איני דר אלא במקום תורה וכי אדם שכל עושרו של עולם אינו נחשב לו למאומה לעומת תועלת רוחנית יש לו מה להתפעל ממעשה קטן של מעות פורים שנתחלפוז פשרם של דברים אומר הגרא"א דסלר זצ"ל בספרו מכתב מאליהו חלק ג עמ' בשם אביו שבדברים גדולים אין המדרגה האמיתית של פנימיות האדם ניכרת שכן הרבה התלהבות חיצונית עושה אולם בדברים קטנים שלכאורה אין להם ערך וחשיבות דווקא בהם מתגלה פנימיותו של האדם וזהו מדרגתו האמיתית 
בחיי היום-יום אנו שאין אדם מקפיד על פחות משוה פרוטה ואין זה נלקח בחשבון אלא אם כן זה מצטרף לאיזשהו חשבון בכל זאת דרך הסוחרים לעגל בסוף חשבונם פחות משוה פרוטה לפרוטה ולא לנכותה מהחשבון מכאן שחמדת הממון שולטת אפילו במשהו וכשמגיע הדבר לשאלה אם לחשב מחצית הפרוטה לחברו או לעצמו הוא מוסיפה לעצמו זהו ההסבר למה שאמרו חז"ל שגדולתו של איוב היתה בזה שהיה מוותר על חצי פרוטה משלו בבא בתרא טו ועיין שם ברש"י כן הוא דרך המידות ששולטות אפילו בדברים הפעוטים ודווקא שם ניכרת מהותו של האדם 

שנינו במדרש אין הקב"ה נותן גדולה לאדם עד שבודקהו בדבר קטן שמות רבה ב ג ומובא שם במדרש שבחן הקב"ה את משה ודוד בדברים קטנים הטעם לכך כמבואר לעיל בירור המדרגה האמיתית של האדם הוא דווקא בדברים קטנים 
and then he uses this to explain what Moshe Rabbeinu meant when he said that he didn't take even a donkey for himself from the people.

Friday, July 6, 2012

How to Show Kavod for Torah and Hakaras Hatov to a Rebbi

I've been saying a daf yomi shiur for twenty five years.  I believe that the hakaras hatov and kavod hatorah my shiur demonstrates is unique.  I am not a kli kodesh that depends on the kindness of the community for my support.  I am just a baalabos like they are, a baalabos that was fortunate enough to be encouraged by my family and my friends to begin and continue the shiur.  But they don't limit their hakaras hatov to words alone.  On Chanuka, I get a Chanuka gift.  On Purim, I get Shalach Manos.   There is one person in the shiur that buys me beautiful ties from Brooks Brothers.  My bookcase is stocked with beautiful sefarim they bought me- the new Shulchan Aruch and Tur, a Yerushalmi, Rav Kasher's Torah Shleimah, Shaarei Aharon, and many more.  And every year, on July fourth, they make a birthday party for me.  This year, after conspiring with my wife, they bought me a Dell Inspiron Laptop.

I have protested as many times as they have made parties, and would have stopped this many years ago, but my wife and my father in law say that if people want to express hakaras hatov and kavod hatorah, I have no right to interfere.  My wife says says that expressing hakaras hatov is good for the soul, and especially in limud hatorah it enhances the entire experience and what you retain.  Giving it chashivus makes it more chashuv.  And the truth is that saying the shiur for so long is not easy.  There are times when it is very difficult, and there is a yetzer hara to just drop it and do something else.  Knowing that my chevra so sincerely appreciate it, and that they dedicate a large part of their lives to attending the shiur- I see some of them more than their own children see them- make it impossible to consider stopping.

During the shiur, the only pictures that were taken were on an old polaroid instamatic, which doesn't translate well to the net.  But here are some pictures my brother took at my mother's house after the party.




 The words on top are the pesukim from the parsha of Erchin, to remind me that the erech of a fifty nine year old is fifty shekalim, and that of a sixty year old is fifteen.  That on my sixtieth birthday, my erech drops seventy percent.  I would like to point out that the chochma is to see to it that your shavyus is greater than your erech.  The reference to a Cholent Club is that I make a kiddush after the early minyan on Shabbos, and many members of the shiur come to the kiddush.  We talk in learning, discuss current events in the Jewish world, and about whoever happens to not be there.

Here's the moral of the story.  The purpose of this post is twofold.  First, I wish I had a way of declaring my great hakaras hatov to the members of my shiur, who do so much more than necessary to thank me.  Second, if you are a member of a shiur, you have an obligation to find some meaningful way to express your respect and gratitude to the magid shiur.  It doesn't matter if he's richer than you, or just a baalabos, or if you're a bigger talmid chacham than he is.  You have to find a way to show hakaras hatov.  I know one shiur that sent their rebbi for the first time in his life to Eretz Yisrael.  Another shiur bought their rebbi's wife a beautiful and expensive wrist watch.  What you do doesn't matter.  What matters is that it should be an unequivocal, meaningful, and clear declaration of hakaras hatov.  As Ben Sira wrote, בני נצור עיתך והישמר מאווןולא תבוש מתת תודה.  

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Korach, Bamidbar 18:19. Separating Challa from Play Dough (Play-Doh)

Among the entitlements of the Kohanim is the familiar mitzva of Challah.  If you make dough using five pounds or more of flour, you have to separate Challah with a Bracha.  We know that until you separate the Challah, you cannot eat the rest.  But what if you have no intention of consuming the dough in any form at any time? In that case, you don't need to permit the dough, because you're not going to eat it anyway.  Is there still a mitzva to separate the challa in that case?  For example, if you're a kindergarten teacher and you're making play dough for the children.  Play dough is salty wheat dough.  Let's assume it's edible.  Indeed, the children will probably eat some of it, but they also eat dead flies, and in any case, that's not the purpose of the dough.  It is intended to be a plaything.  Do you have to separate challah?


(I hope you realize that I really don't care if you have to be mafrish challa from play-dough.  Echoing Reb Yirmiah's method, I chose it to illustrate the shittos on Hafrashas Challa in a memorable manner.  A less loopy example would be dough that was made to seal pots while they cook, as noted in Shabbas 51b.  I assume they threw it out afterwards.)


In other words, is the mitzva of hafrashas Challah a mattir- a utilitarian means of removing an issur and allowing you to eat the remainder, which, therefore, would only need to be done when you want to eat the remainder, or is it inherently requisite when you have dough, a self standing mitzva irrespective of what you intend to do or not do with the rest of it.   Or, put it this way:  is it dictated only by a desire to generate a specific consequence, or it dictated by current circumstances.  For example: The Rambam says that we don't have mitzva to go and shecht an animal.  But if one desires to eat meat, the mitzva is to be mattir it by means of Shechita.  Rambam 1 Shechita 1:
מצות עשה שישחוט מי שירצה לאכול בשר בהמה חיה ועוף ואחר כך יאכל שנאמר וזבחת מבקרך ומצאנך.   The Kesef Mishna saysמצות עשה שישחוט מי שירצה לאכול וכו'. כתב מי שירצה, לומר שאינה מצוה שחייב האדם לעשותה עכ"פ כמו תפילין וציצית שופר סוכה ולולב.   In fact, for this reason the Raavad in the Minyan Hamitzvos in the Yad holds that Shechita should not be counted among the mitzvos.  Shechita is definitely only a mattir, not an act that is inherently requisite.


Other mitzvos are inherently necessary.  For example, you cannot eat a korban until the blood is placed on the Mizbei'ach.  What if you cannot eat the korban (e.g., chattas ha'of al hasafeik)?  Do you still have to put the blood on the Mizbei'ach?  Of course you do!  The permission to eat the korban that results from doing the mitzva is not the reason you do the mitzva, it is a tangential result.


So what is the story with Hafrashas Challa?  Is it a mitzva in and of itself or only a mattir?


This happens to be a machlokes the Magen Avraham and Reb Akiva Eiger and Rashi (and maybe the Rambam) against the Taz and the Gaon (and maybe the Ramban).  The  Magen Avraham  in OC 8:2 asks why the mishna in Challa allows the bracha on hafrashas challa while seated, when in general brachos should be said while standing.  He answers that this mitzva is only a mattir, like Shechita, so it is not like other mitzvos.  The Gaon there disagrees, as follows: ודברי מג"א שחלה אינה מצוה, דבריו אין להם שחר, והלא אסור לעשות עיסתו קבין כדי להפקיע חיוב חלה כאמור ביו"ד סי' שכ"ד סי"ד ואמרי' בפ"ג דפסחים [מח,ב,] מאי דעתך לחומרא חומרא דאתי לידי קולא, דמפקע ליה מחלה   The Taz in YD 1:17 says clearly that there is a mitzva to be mafrish even if you have no intention of eating the rest and don't need a mattir.  Reb Akiva Eiger there mentions the Magen Avraham and holds like him, against the Taz:  לא מצאתי זה, דבפשוטו הוא רק כשרוצה לאכלו אסור עד שיפריש תרומה, ובמג"א ריש סי' ח' כתב כן לענין חלה ע"ש, וה"נ בתרומה.  Reb Aharon and the Chavatzeles Hasharon (Carlebach, Gilly's brother in law) point out that the passuk in Shlach, Bamidbar 15:19, and a similar passuk by Teruma in Devarim 14:22, use the word "B'achlechem," which seems to support the Magen Avraham.  Also, see Rashi in Gittin 47b: ד"ה מדאורייתא: דביכורים מצוה דרמיא עליה היא ולא טבלי לאסור פירות באכילה וכו'. ולא דמי למעשר וכו' דמעשר טביל ואסר ליה באכילה, ולא מצוה דרמיא עליה היא, אלא אם כן אוכלן או מוכרן דקא משתרשי ליה, clearly like the Magen Avraham.


This issue arises in Chalitza as well.  Is chalitza only necessary as a mattir or is it a mitzva of its own?  What if the Yevama is elderly and there is no chance in the world that she will remarry; is it a mitzva for her to do Chalitza?  This is a machlokes between the Chasam Sofer in his Teshuvos EH II 85 (no, because it's only a mattir) and Reb Moshe in his Dibros in Kiddushin He'arah 113 (yes, because it's a mitzva chiyuvis, from the Gemara in Kiddushin 14a.)  And what about Shiluach Hakan?  Also a machlokes the Chasam Sofer (it's only a mattir) and the Mekubalim (it's a big mitzva.)  What about going to the mikva to remove your tum'ah?  A machlokes Tana'im, whether Tevilla Bizmana Mitzva (see Yoma 8a and Shabbos 121a).


Interestingly, a closely related issue arises regarding Kiddushin:  See Rosh Kesuvos 1:12, who writes:
למה באמת אין מברכין אשר קדשנו במצותיו וצונו לקדש את האשה?  ונ"ל כי ברכה זו אינה ברכה לעשיית המצוה כי פריה ורביה היינו קיום המצוה, ואם לקח פלגש וקיים פו"ר אינו מחוייב לקדש אשה כו' ואף בנושא אשה לשם פו"ר כיון שאפשר לקיים מצות פו"ר בלא קידושין, ולא דמי לשחיטה שאינו מחוייב לשחוט ולאכול, ואפ"ה כשהוא שוחט לאכול מברך, דהתם אי אפשר לו לאכול בלא שחיטה אבל הכא אפשר לקיים פו"ר בלא קידושין כו' .

So, the bottom line is that if you make a lot of play-dough, it's a machlokes achronim whether you have to be mafrish challah.  It will probably feel silly to be mafrish and burn play dough challah even if you're not making a bracha.  You don't have to be Korach to scratch your head at this one.  But you're going to have to come up with a reason the Taz and the Gaon wouldn't require it.

Maybe it's inedible, but we'd have to do an experiment.  You really can't rely on what kids eat.  Any volunteers?

Here's an additional ha'ara in the shitta of the Taz and the Gaon to answer Reb Aharon's raya from באכלכם:  I originally thought that just because Chametz Noksha (חמץ נוקשה ייחדו לישיבה see  חזון איש קט"ז) is not a problem of Baal Yei'ra'eh doesn't mean the same applies to Hilchos Challah- but maybe it does, even according to the Taz.  In fact, perhaps this is what the Taz does with the word "b'achle'chem"- not that you have to want to eat it, because he holds it's not just a utilitarian mitzva, it's a self-standing mitzva.  But B'ach'lechem tells you that if you intend to use it for a non-food purpose, it becomes like chametz noksha and is pattur from Challah.  No intent at all- chayav.  Intent to make tzatzkes- pattur.  

If so, we can say that even according to the Taz/Gaon, intent for a non-food purpose is different than no intent at all, and you would be pattur here.  If you have any thoughts on the matter, let me know. 


NOTE:
When I said that the Rambam and the Ramban can be read to agree with, respectively, the Magen Avraham and the Taz, I was referring to their argument in Sefer Hamitzvos Shoresh 12.  The Rambam says that he doesn't want to count as mitzvos such actions that are only part of a mitzva, like making the utensils of the Mishkan and making the Mishkan as a whole.  The Bahag disagrees.  One of the examples of this disagreement is Matnos Kehuna, in which the Rambam combines the separating and the giving into one mitzva.  The Ramban argues and says that that's only true in some matanos; the ones that render the mixture tevel prior to separation have two separate mitzvos, the separating and the giving.  The ones that do not render the mixture tevel prior to separation have only one mitzva; the separation together with the giving.  The Ramban's example is- Challah.  He brings from the Sifri that there are two separate mitzvos by Teruma, the hafrasha and the nesina.  He also says that if the Rambam were right, it wouldn't make sense to make a bracha on the hafrasha, since that's not the gmar of the mitzva.

The truth is, that the Rambam himself (mitzvos 126) says that the separation of Truma Gedola is a mitzva, and he says the same in his introduction to Trumos in the Yad.  It might be said that the Rambam holds that the purpose of the hafrasha is not to permit the remainder, but to generate matanos that you can give to the Cohen.  The Ramban clearly holds that it is the generating of the permit on the remainder that is the "purpose" of the mitzva of Hafrasha, because if it were to generate matanos, his distinction between matanos that make the rest tevel and matanos that don't.

Monday, June 18, 2012

Parshas Korach: Respect for Gedolei Yisrael

Much of the source material in this post is in Hebrew.  To minimize the possibility of further chillul Hashem, I don't want to translate it, but it is perfectly matched to this week's parsha.

I recently saw a highly respected web log, written by a talmid chacham and kli kodesh, that cited a statement by Rav Steinman as reported in Yediot Achronot.  He also brought someone else's reaction to Rav Steinman's statement.  I was disgusted by the azus panim of the latter, but nu, there are plenty of mouth breathers out there who think they are the Ramchal reincarnated.  I was very taken aback by the former's failure to objurgate that chutzpedikeh screed.  Coincidentally, I saw an article that reinforced Rav Steinman's statement, and a response (click on "Response from a Catholic Theologian") to that article by a Catholic theologian, whose thesis reflects the truth of, lehavdil, Rav Steinman's statement.  I direct you primarily to the first paragraph.  Unfortunately, there are people to whom the measured phrases of a Catholic theologian will mean more than....  The bottom line is that לא תרצח is a chiddush, and לא תנאף is a chiddush, and לא תגנוב is a chiddush.

I need to make this clear; one who remains silent when he hears of disrespect to a great talmid chacham, is complicit, rachmana litzlan, in the sin.  Other, more respectable websites, no doubt are loath to even mention this issue because it is beneath contempt, or because dissemination might add to the Chillul Hashem.  Baruch Hashem, this website doesn't have to worry about respectability, and it is so well matched to this week's parsha that I felt a need to post it.

There may be leadership figures whose status stems primarily from charisma or inheritance, and whose  authority and status is specific to their group of followers, who knowingly and enthusiastically participate in their own deception.  Rav Steinman, on the other hand, is a malach, a living sefer Torah whose middos and tzidkus and chesed are beyond the comprehension of the average human being.  If you have a question about something a man of Rav Steinman's stature said, if something he is quoted as having said troubles you, then either work hard to understand what was said and why it was said and what it means, or just shut the hell up.

article from ynet:
בכנס לקראת שבועות אמר הרב יהודה לייב שטיינמן, ממנהיגי הציבור החרדי-ליטאי, כי העולם נברא למען לומדי התורה: "יש שמונה מיליארדים אנשים בעולם. ומה הם כולם, רוצחים, גנבים אנשים בלי שכל"

הרב אהרון יהודה לייב שטיינמן, ממנהיגי הציבור החרדי-ליטאי, התבטא בחריפות נגד אומות העולם. בדברים שנשא בכנס בבית שמש לקראת חג שבועות - חג מתן תורה - הדגיש הרב את חשיבותה של התורה, ואמר כי העולם נברא עבור הצדיקים שלומדים ומקיימים אותה.

דברי הרב בכנס פורסמו במלואם בעיתון החרדי "יתד נאמן", שם צוטט כאומר על מי שאינם יהודים: "יש שמונה מיליארדים אנשים בעולם. ומה הם כולם, רוצחים, גנבים אנשים בלי שכל. זה הכל נמצא, אבל מי התכלית של העולם, וכי הקדוש-ברוך-הוא ברא את העולם בשביל הרוצחים האלה? בשביל הרשעים האלה?" כסמכות הרוחנית עבור ניצגי הליטאים ויהדות התורה, חזר בהמשך דבריו וטען כנגד העולם: "לגויים אין שום שייכות עם תורה. אומות העולם אין להם שום דבר, לא ביטחון (=אמונה) ולא שום מידה טובה". עסקו בחשיבותה של התורה והשפעתה על חיי היום-יום וחינוך הילדים. הרב הדגיש כי "מי שלא לומד תורה, הוא לא מקיים את המצוות. אם הוא לא לומד תורה זה חורבן, חורבן שלו ושל העולם...
"וזה אנחנו צריכים לשאוף, לראות שכל הילדים, כל הדורות שלנו, להכניס את הבן
ללמוד תורה... כל אחד ואחד שרוצה לראות נחת מהילדים, שיראה שילמדו תורה. אם לא תורה, יהיה עם הארץ וגם נחת לא יהיה ממנו. אפילו אם יהיה לו כסף. וכיז זו התכלית? כסף! האם    לוקחים כסף לקבר? אין דבר כזה, ומה יש כן בקבר - תורה".


מנכ"ל חדו"ש, הרב עו"ד אורי רגב, אמר בתגובה לדברים: "מדהים ומקומם לשמוע את ההתבטאות מלאת השנאה נגד כמעט כל המין האנושי. שוב חושף הרב שטיינמן את העובדה שאגדת המתינות שלו היתה במקרה הטוב מופרכת, ובמקרה הרע מעשה הונאה".


I don't want to reproduce the "Reaction article."

Here is the beginning of the journal article:
J Med Ethics doi:10.1136/medethics-2011-100411
  • Law, ethics and medicine
  • After-birth abortion: why should the baby live?
  1. Francesca Minerva
    Received 25 November 2011
  • Revised 26 January 2012
  • Accepted 27 January 2012
  • Published Online First 23 February 2012

Abstract

Abortion is largely accepted even for reasons that do not have anything to do with the fetus' health. By showing that (1) both fetuses and newborns do not have the same moral status as actual persons, (2) the fact that both are potential persons is morally irrelevant and (3) adoption is not always in the best interest of actual people, the authors argue that what we call ‘after-birth abortion’ (killing a newborn) should be permissible in all the cases where abortion is, including cases where the newborn is not disabled.

Introduction

Severe abnormalities of the fetus and risks for the physical and/or psychological health of the woman are often cited as valid reasons for abortion. Sometimes the two reasons are connected, such as when a woman claims that a disabled child would represent a risk to her mental health. However, having a child can itself be an unbearable burden for the psychological health of the woman or for her already existing children,1 regardless of the condition of the fetus. This could happen in the case of a woman who loses her partner after she finds out that she is pregnant and therefore feels she will not be able to take care of the possible child by herself.
A serious philosophical problem arises when the same conditions that would have justified abortion become known after birth. In such cases, we need to assess facts in order to decide whether the same arguments that apply to killing a human fetus can also be consistently applied to killing a newborn human.
Such an issue arises, for example, when an abnormality has not been detected during pregnancy or occurs during delivery. Perinatal asphyxia, for instance, may cause severe brain damage and result in severe mental and/or physical impairments comparable with those for which a woman could request an abortion. Moreover, abnormalities are not always, or cannot always be, diagnosed through prenatal screening even if they have a genetic origin. This is more likely to happen when the disease is not hereditary but is the result of genetic mutations occurring in the gametes of a healthy parent. One example is the case of Treacher-Collins syndrome (TCS), a condition that affects 1 in every 10 000 births causing facial deformity and related physiological failures, in particular potentially life-threatening respiratory problems. Usually those affected by TCS are not mentally impaired and they are therefore fully aware of their condition, of being different from other people and of all the problems their pathology entails. Many parents would choose to have an abortion if they find out, through genetic prenatal testing, that their fetus is affected by TCS. However, genetic prenatal tests for TCS are usually taken only if there is a family history of the disease. Sometimes, though, the disease is caused by a gene mutation that intervenes in the gametes of a healthy member of the couple. Moreover, tests for TCS are quite expensive and it takes several weeks to get the result. Considering that it is a very rare pathology, we can understand why women are not usually tested for this disorder.
However, such rare and severe pathologies are not the only ones that are likely to remain undetected until delivery; even more common congenital diseases that women are usually tested for could fail to be detected. An examination of 18 European registries reveals that between 2005 and 2009 only the 64% of Down's syndrome cases were diagnosed through prenatal testing.2 This percentage indicates that, considering only the European areas under examination, about 1700 infants were born with Down's syndrome without parents being aware of it before birth. Once these children are born, there is no choice for the parents but to keep the child, which sometimes is exactly what they would not have done if the disease had been diagnosed before birth.

Abortion and after-birth abortion

Euthanasia in infants has been proposed by philosophers3 for children with severe abnormalities whose lives can be expected to be not worth living and who are experiencing unbearable suffering.
Also medical professionals have recognised the need for guidelines about cases in which death seems to be in the best interest of the child. In The Netherlands, for instance, the Groningen Protocol (2002) allows to actively terminate the life of ‘infants with a hopeless prognosis who experience what parents and medical experts deem to be unbearable suffering’.4
Although it is reasonable to predict that living with a very severe condition is against the best interest of the newborn, it is hard to find definitive arguments to the effect that life with certain pathologies is not worth living, even when those pathologies would constitute acceptable reasons for abortion. It might be maintained that ‘even allowing for the more optimistic assessments of the potential of Down's syndrome children, this potential cannot be said to be equal to that of a normal child’.3 But, in fact, people with Down's syndrome, as well as people affected by many other severe disabilities, are often reported to be happy.5
Nonetheless, to bring up such children might be an unbearable burden on the family and on society as a whole, when the state economically provides for their care. On these grounds, the fact that a fetus has the potential to become a person who will have an (at least) acceptable life is no reason for prohibiting abortion. Therefore, we argue that, when circumstances occur after birth such that they would have justified abortion, what we call after-birth abortion should be permissible.
In spite of the oxymoron in the expression, we propose to call this practice ‘after-birth abortion’, rather than ‘infanticide’, to emphasise that the moral status of the individual killed is comparable with that of a fetus (on which ‘abortions’ in the traditional sense are performed) rather than to that of a child. Therefore, we claim that killing a newborn could be ethically permissible in all the circumstances where abortion would be. Such circumstances include cases where the newborn has the potential to have an (at least) acceptable life, but the well-being of the family is at risk. Accordingly, a second terminological specification is that we call such a practice ‘after-birth abortion’ rather than ‘euthanasia’ because the best interest of the one who dies is not necessarily the primary criterion for the choice, contrary to what happens in the case of euthanasia.
Failing to bring a new person into existence cannot be compared with the wrong caused by procuring the death of an existing person. The reason is that, unlike the case of death of an existing person, failing to bring a new person into existence does not prevent anyone from accomplishing any of her future aims. However, this consideration entails a much stronger idea than the one according to which severely handicapped children should be euthanised. If the death of a newborn is not wrongful to her on the grounds that she cannot have formed any aim that she is prevented from accomplishing, then it should also be permissible to practise an after-birth abortion on a healthy newborn too, given that she has not formed any aim yet.
There are two reasons which, taken together, justify this claim:
  1. The moral status of an infant is equivalent to that of a fetus, that is, neither can be considered a ‘person’ in a morally relevant sense.
  2. It is not possible to damage a newborn by preventing her from developing the potentiality to become a person in the morally relevant sense.
We are going to justify these two points in the following two sections.

The newborn and the fetus are morally equivalent

The moral status of an infant is equivalent to that of a fetus in the sense that both lack those properties that justify the attribution of a right to life to an individual.
Both a fetus and a newborn certainly are human beings and potential persons, but neither is a ‘person’ in the sense of ‘subject of a moral right to life’. We take ‘person’ to mean an individual who is capable of attributing to her own existence some (at least) basic value such that being deprived of this existence represents a loss to her. This means that many non-human animals and mentally retarded human individuals are persons, but that all the individuals who are not in the condition of attributing any value to their own existence are not persons. Merely being human is not in itself a reason for ascribing someone a right to life. Indeed, many humans are not considered subjects of a right to life: spare embryos where research on embryo stem cells is permitted, fetuses where abortion is permitted, criminals where capital punishment is legal.

and here is the response by Charles C. Camosy , is Assistant Professor of Theology at Fordham University in New York City. 
 Concern for Our Vulnerable Prenatal and Neonatal Children: A Brief Reply to Giubilini and Minerva

Despite the wide public outcry over their article, Giubilini and Minerva’s arguments in defense of infanticide are nothing new. Peter Singer has become one of the best known philosophers in the world in part because of the attention he has received from defending the practice.  Infanticide was such an established part of the culture of ancient Greece and Rome that Christians and Jews became subjects of public mockery for opposing it.  Even today, infanticide is consistently practiced in places where the Judeo-Christian tradition does not serve as a moral foundation, such as China and India.

But the Judeo-Christian tradition’s influence has diminished in the developed West, and as a result it has become more difficult to claim that all members of the species Homo sapiens are persons with an equal right to life. Giubilini and Minerva provide an important example of what follows from the rejection of the sanctity of human life. Even the most ardent defenders of abortion rights cannot deny the science behind the claim a prenatal child is a fellow member of our species, but that—at least to some in our post-Christian world—is not morally significant.  What matters is having the interests and capabilities of persons: rationality, self-awareness, the ability engage in loving relationships, etc. Many already reject the personhood of our prenatal children because they do not have these traits, but Giubilini and Minerva make the fairly obvious point that our neonatal children do not have these traits either. Thus, they claim, if one supports abortion for this reason, one should support infanticide on the same basis.